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Jason Kepha's first piece in Pijama Surf dwells on the guru, beyond new age jargon, as a necessary fatherly figure, key to the coming age of our collective psyche


“Let there be no difference made among you between any one thing & any other thing; for thereby there cometh hurt.”—The Book of the Law

From a strictly biological perspective, the whole of nature is in competition with itself. The survival of the fittest is a competition, a struggle for dominance, and if organisms do not compete, they do not survive. Perhaps the most obvious area of competition, among humans as well as other animals, is the sexual arena. (The other obvious one would be that of territory, and food.) Males compete among one another for sexual dominance and the resulting access to females. (If it’s to a lesser extent that women also compete for the prize men, that may be because it is more “natural” for several women to share one man than vice versa.) If a boy child has male siblings, such rivalry begins early, in competition for the mother’s love. Even if he doesn’t have siblings, there is the Oedipal struggle with the father for the same, and apparently this early tension prepares the organism for the ongoing struggle of existence. The paradox of this arrangement is that father and son, or even child and sibling, are not actually in competition in any real (survival-based) sense, because they are part of a single “tribe” or system in which there is enough to go around for everyone. The struggle is rather a psychological and emotional one. As long as the father and the son are not perceived as equals—and even though both may experience the other as a threat—there is no need for any actual conflict between them. When the son begins to approach manhood, however, the rivalry becomes dynamic, and is even a fundamental ingredient of a coming of age ritual for the child. Defying the father’s authority is a rite of passage which, to some degree at least, is enacted by most young men (though often with a surrogate father figure, if the biological father is no longer present in that role).

Based on my own recent brush with guru worship and cult mentality, the function and appeal (and also trap) of gurus is that they help us to recreate this primary arrangement. Like a child with its parent, the person who follows a guru experiences him or herself as fundamentally inferior to their teacher, at least insofar as they consider him or her to be enlightened, a person of knowledge, an avatar of the divine, a living embodiment of truth, etc. In order to accept another human being as one’s guru, one must believe that they have attained a higher level of being in comparison to oneself—in other words, that they are superior in every conceivable way. This is how a child experiences its parents—and adults in general—as belonging to a different species, a different genus. The child then aspires, on the one hand, to please its parents and earn their favor through good behavior; on the other hand, as it matures, it attempts to match its parents’ behavior as the means to become an adult in its own right. A child grows up then through a combination of obedience and imitation, which is more or less identical to how followers relate to their gurus. This, at least, is the social overlay. At a more primal level, a child’s growth is a biological inevitability, and since any child that grows to be an adult thereby supplants its parents in the evolutionary chain, it grows up not merely to equal but to surpass (become superior to) its parents. This is where the parallels with gurus and followers begin to fall down, because it is almost unheard of for followers to surpass their guru in stature. What tends to happen, rather, is that at some point the guru is “exposed” in his humanness, and as a result loses his following, or a significant part of it.

Part of coming of age for every child entails seeing its parents as flawed, human individuals and thereby rejecting those elements of parental conditioning which do not hold up under scrutiny, that prevent the child becoming an individual rather than facilitate that process. Consciousness evolves through a combination of obstacles and challenges with nurture and support. If life were all obstacles and no support, none of us would survive; but if it were all nurture and no challenges, we would never grow strong enough to leave the nest and make our own way. The sexual drive eventually forces every child out of the nest. Perhaps this is why the sexual drive creates friction even early on—if Freud was correct about the Oedipal dynamic—when the child wishes to replace (slay) the father in order to “have” the mother all to itself? Symbolically, this is what must occur for the generations to continue. In those early years, a child must sublimate its desires in order to adapt to the reality that it is not equal to its father and cannot “have” its mother the way the father does. With adolescence, the boy-child does become equal to the father, having outgrown (ideally, though often in our culture this does not occur) his infantile desire for the mother. He is then ready to start a family of his own and continue the ancestral linage. Where this natural generational growth cycle breaks down, however, is in the absence of a strong, actively engaged father to set an example for the child, while at the same time providing the challenges of male competition and rivalry through which the boy enters into manhood.

In our culture—and I think this is now a global phenomenon—the absence of a strong paternal presence (a subject for a whole other piece) has created generations of mother-bonded, “emasculated” males who are unfit (psychologically and emotionally unprepared) to be fathers because they are unfit to be men. While the procreative drive is presumably undiminished, the backbone of authority, integrity, and “straightness” that is required to responsibly wield and direct that sexual energy (as opposed to merely being a slave to it) is missing. So while New Age proponents may optimistically declare that the age of the guru is over, the profound psychological and emotional void within us—both males and females—for a shining divine father to look up to, and an Obama/Hitler-type leader to follow—and to fill us with hope, meaning, and purpose—remains undiminished. It cannot be quenched by any amount of philosophical knowledge, because it does not suffice simply to say that we are coming of age as consciousness, when the rite of passage which proves our growing up has not yet occurred.

This is where the guru comes in. In recent history, gurus have most commonly been exposed as abusing their power over followers by sexually exploiting them; yet paradoxically, it is common for followers of spiritual teachers to willingly surrender their sexuality and become celibate. (As in the parent-child relationship, apparently certain experiences are deemed as “off-limits” to all but grown-ups—in this case the guru.) For male disciples, becoming celibate is a way to recreate infant patterns of pre-sexual desire, and in the process, they cease to be a threat to the father-guru; this then prevents rivalry or competition from arising between the guru and his (male) followers, which is essential for the harmony of the community, or “family.” Since in consequence the female followers are not being sexually satisfied by their newly-emasculated males, they are likely to accept sexual gratification from their guru under the guise of “enlightenment.” The guru then has “the rule of the roost.”

This would all constitute a necessary part of the unconscious coming of age ritual reenactment, however, because to embody the role of the father surrogate, the guru must finally be recognized as not only as flawed but as a false model of authority. Only then can he be rejected with the same fervor with which previously he was emulated and adored. It is not enough to say that we do not need gurus; first the part of us that does need gurus must be identified and expunged. Only then will we be owning our individual sense of truth instead of looking outside to someone or something else for it. This may be the psychological import of the mythic/historical idea of false prophets and of Antichrist, roles played in the past century by Stalin, Hitler, Charles Manson, Jim Jones, et al. Our longing for a savior, guru, avatar, or Messiah to intervene in our lives and to rescue us from the chaos, madness, addiction, disease, spiritual emptiness and despair of our existence is real enough, because it is at least partially sourced in those formative experiences in which we lacked exactly that—a strong parental figure to prepare us for adulthood. If we can only undo patterns by first recreating them, then that very longing for a Messiah must eventually call forth a negative image of the same. It will be an image which we will be compelled at first to believe in, with all our hearts and minds, exactly as infants we believed in the infallibility of our mothers and fathers. Only then can reality intervene, and set us straight.

Brutalidad policíaca en evidencia: policía de Phoenix golpea a una joven de 15 años (VIDEO)

Por: pijamasurf - 05/06/2011

Circula en la Red el video de un policía golpeando a una adolescente de solo 15 años en Phoenix; una vez más YouTube es empleado como una efectiva herramienta de denuncia.

En lo que ciertamente no es la primera vez que YouTube se emplea para denunciar masivamente un crimen por parte de las fuerzas policíacas, y que (des)afortunadamente tampoco será la última, el video de un policía que golpea a una adolescente de quince años en Phoenix ya se ha viralizado a través de la Red. Si bien el sistema gubernamental aún se legitima a través del control hegemónico de la violencia (al menos la violencia legal) lo cierto es que los medios digitales han otorgado múltiples herramientas de denuncia para que los ciudadanos puedan evidenciar los abusos de dicha violencia en que incurren las autoridades.

Tal es el caso de este video en el que se observa a un policía utilizar fuerza excesiva en contra de una estudiante de 15 años. Si bien la niña había "asaltado" a un profesor tras pelearse y fugarse de su casa y se encontraba en un beligerante estado de ebriedad, ninguna de estas razones justifica el trato que recibe por parte del oficial. "Todo lo que se ve en este video es la fuerza utilizada durante el arresto. Y a simple vista ciertamente parece que está fuera de los límites de lo que se considera como razonable", afirmó un portavoz del Departamento  de Policía local. Mientras tanto, el oficial ha sido suspendido y se espera que sea sancionado o incluso destituido, nada de lo cual hubiese pasado si los amigos de la chica no se hubiesen encargado de difundir en YouTube este video documentado por un testigo.